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Feeling Alone in The Modern Age

Ron Depner

Updated: Oct 12, 2024

In today's world, people are experiencing higher levels of loneliness than ever before.

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Loneliness in the modern age

Factors Contributing to Increased Loneliness:

  • Online Jobs: The rise of remote work and online jobs has reduced face-to-face interactions, leading to a lack of social connection and meaningful relationships.

  • Lingering Social Ramifications of COVID-19: The ongoing effects of the pandemic have resulted in continued social distancing, restrictions on gatherings, and fear of close contact, further isolating individuals.

  • Individualism: The emphasis on individual success and self-reliance in modern society can lead to a lack of community support and a sense of alienation.

  • A Colder and More Fearful World: Increasing levels of fear, distrust, and uncertainty in the world can make people more guarded and less likely to reach out to others, deepening feelings of loneliness.

  • Increased reliance on social media for communication, leading to superficial relationships


As we navigate these challenges, it is essential to prioritize mental health, foster genuine connections, and seek support when needed to combat the pervasive feelings of loneliness in the modern age.


Ways Counseling can Help:

Building a positive therapeutic relationship with a therapist can help in many ways! But what about the obvious question that comes up all the time: "Yeah but it's a paid service where the person is receiving money to be like a friend who listens."

It's a fair consideration. In the ideal world, we'd all have plenty of friends and family members who can hold space for us, provide us with helpful feedback, and just listen. But the reality is, many of us don't. But a counselling relationship is also much more than just a person to sit and talk to. Counsellors are trained to help us to grow, to take accountability for areas we might be in dissonance with our own values, to empower us in areas we are feeling powerless or stuck, and to recognize relational issues such as problems with boundaries or co-dependencies. Counsellors also help by:


  • Encouraging self-care practices like mindfulness, exercise, and adequate sleep.

  • Exploring underlying issues contributing to feelings of loneliness.

  • Teaching coping mechanisms to manage loneliness, such as journaling or engaging in hobbies.

  • Promoting social skills development to improve interpersonal relationships and build a support network.

  • Group therapy or support groups can help to connect with others facing similar challenges.


If you or someone you know is struggling with overwhelming feelings of loneliness or any other personal struggles, please don't hesitate to reach out. Our team of skilled, warm, and professional clinicians can help!




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